hmm, but my mate, older than me, says that meeting girls in clubs and bars and shit is all good if you want summat short, such as, sex and nowt else, but to find a decent lass you have to look further out. there's a lass i like, thankfully she comes in to the shop fairly often, so now that i've finally made my mind up to, i'm gna ask her if she wants to get a coffee or something. But i'd never be able to ask that to a girl i've just met