It is. You are 100% right, and quite frankly I am utterly retarded.
But I have OCD, as such I can't help but clean it constantly. And I enjoy it, it's relaxing.
All I need to do is use a quick detailer twice a week, and it would still look exactly the same as it does after my daily routine of waxing over wax.
So my recoomendation to you would be buy some AngelWax QD or Sonax Britemax detailer, wax once every 4-6 weeks and quick rinse and quick detail once a week.
I find the act of cleaning, wax on and wax off very therapeutic. Hence the constant cleaning. Me time