Thought you were 12? At that age you shouldn't be using words such as f***ing as your mummy may tell you off! Smacked bottom for you! Anyway, have you ever actually met this girl(its a guy really isn't it )? You can't really say you were close if you just spoke over msn really. Although not what that guy would say who's gone to america! Why not arrange to meet her anyway, and basically win her over face to face sort of thing! Just my opinion anyway