I'm sorry but 'steady the f**k on'. Nobody is more important than another. Both sides of this have to be considered. In all fairness, It was an accident. Its not like he did it on purpose. We all make mistakes. ( And i amnt saying nothing should be done... Although i belive youve been treated a tad harsh.) Beau, Things are f**ked up for now.. But you can recover. Good luck with future events mate.