f**ks sake, i don't know if i'm being paranoid or something really is going on!! Basically my girlfriend was always the really really jealous type etc etc like ringing me up at 11pm in tears asking me to go home just so i can talk to her!...but a couple of days ago she asked me if we could both put passwords on our phones? i thought nothing of it untill i found out that apparantly her friend has been taking her phone and texting a guy at college.....now she told me straight away it was her friend and i believed her. But now it's really getting suspicious, she goes to her mates most days after college now, which is half an hour from me and where this "guy" lives....now i don't have a problem with any of what she's doing BUT i try endless to call her or text her , not checking up, but just to say hey etc.... but her phone is always "out of battery" or signal but it always says her phones turned off. I went into college an hour early today just to see her as i havent seen her for more than 5 mins in a few days. It turns out the college hours have been changed so she's still in a lesson, so afterwards i ask if she wants to come sit with me in our study room for a bit just to spend a bit of time together but she told me she'd already made plans to go to the common room with her mates...thing is i was practially next door and not once did she come see me? Then i go in and shes texting "the guy" herself and when i asked to see what he'd sent her she said i couldn't??? So i took her to one side and said if anything is going on that i would rather her tell me now then me find out and be heartbroken....she told me that there is nothing going on but i just don't believe her.....i mean i've caught her before on msn being really flirty with other guys and i just let it go.....but this time its really beginning to get to me. Really don't know what to do....sorry for the essay, feels alot better to have somewhere to put what im thinking.