Me an you are in the same situation haha!! I end up making friends with the girl, then it just feels weird trying to go out with them. Me an best mate (girl) were gonna get together, but she did the " i dont wanna loose you as a mate" trick, as did this other girl the other day (god shes fit, dont care if shes 15 haha!) I can be shy at times, thats what going to an all boys school an hangin around with lads does!! (an im not gay before anyone asks lol)